Special sharing

1. I have a BEST BEST spiritual 爸B ( Daddy Donnaven ) in the whole world. ^^ He wrote me below these precious words which like a beautiful poem, just wanna share to everyone. ^^


When someone hurts us we should write down in sand, where the wind of forgiveness can blow and erase it away, when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it. 



2. Some one put this article on facebook, hope all of you like it.
The Winner is always part of the answer; (贏家是答案的一部分)



The Loser is always part of the problem. (輸家是問題的一部分)






The Winner always has a program; (贏家總有計畫)


The Loser always has an excuse. (輸家總有藉口)






The Winner says,"Let me do it for you; (贏家說: 我來幫你做)


The Loser says;" That is not my job." (輸家說: 這不關我的事)






The Winner sees an answer for every problem; (贏家看到每個問題的答案)


The Loser sees a problem for every answer. (輸家看到每個答案的問題)






The Winner says," It may be difficult but it is possible"; (贏家說: 這雖難,但還是有可能)


The Loser says,"It may be possible but it is too difficult." (輸家說: 這雖有可能,但…還是很難!)






When a Winner makes a mistake, he says," I was wrong"; (贏家犯錯時會說: 我錯了)


When a Loser makes a mistake, he says," It wasn't my fault." (輸家犯錯時會說: 不是我的錯)






A Winner makes commitments; (贏家用行動承擔責任)


A Loser makes promises. (輸家只會口頭承諾)






Winners have dreams; (贏家有夢想)


Loser have schemes. (輸家有算計)






Winners say," I must do something"; (贏家說: 我一定要做些事)


Losers say,"Something must be done." (輸家說: 有些事情應該有人去做)






Winners are a part of the team; (贏家是團隊中的一份子)


Losers are apart from the team. (輸家是團隊外的一部份)






Winners see the gain; (贏家重視努力)


Losers see the pain. (輸家只看痛苦)






Winners see possibilities; (贏家看到可能)


Losers see problems. (輸家看到問題)






Winners believe in win/win; Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose. (贏家相信雙贏,輸家希望自己不要吃虧)






Winners see the potential; (贏家看到未來)


Losers see the past. (輸家回憶過去)






Winners are like a thermostat; (贏家像溫度調節器)


Losers are like thermometers. (輸家像溫度計)






Winners choose what they say; (贏家選擇說什麼)


Losers say what they choose. （輸家說他們選擇的）






Winners use hard arguments but soft words; (贏家為困難爭論, 但言語柔和)


Losers use soft arguments but hard words. (輸家因困難軟弱, 但言語剛烈)






Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things; (贏家為價值剛強,但為虛浮表象可以妥協)


Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values. (輸家堅持在虛浮表象,卻對價值可以妥協)






Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you


would, not want them to do to you"; （贏家有同理心,己所不欲,勿施於人）


Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you." (輸家認為要在別人害你之前,先害他)






Winners make it happen; (贏家讓事情辦到)


Losers let it happen. (輸家等事情發生)